Now he’s 1

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18 th January 2008 is the special date..Amirul Wafiy’s 1st birthday. Ironically nothing special happen on that day since it was Friday and Wafiy is not capable of claiming anything yet.. The party just have a cake (delicious one) and the ‘lembik’ pulut..

 

On Saturday 19th we went up to Genting Highland at the middle of the night. It wasn’t the actual plan anyway, first we went to take a ride on Eyes on Malaysia Tasik Titiwangsa.

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 After that, around 6p.m we were still high and in the mood, so when papa ask me where should we go then..spontaneously i said ‘Genting Highland’ without any intentions or hope (knowing what type of Papa’s place-to-be is). Suddenly Papa drove pass Zoo Negara and headed to Gombak..i knew that Papa is granted my long-time wish this time. Wafiy- as usual on my lap looking around for the busy-driving cars.

The story goes up there and i don’t have the time to jot it here( u know i’m stealing office’s time now) but as the conclusion we had the best moment there..

Wafiy – by the time you could read and blog (hehe) i would like to you know that

MAMA LOVE YOU SO MUCH DEAR, NO MATTER WHAT HAPPEN….

WISH YOUR LIFE FULL WITH JOY AND SUCCESS……

p/s: sorry frens, we didn’t bring the cam so that no pics to be exhibited here….only an old pic taken during our first visit to Eyes on M’sia 6 months ago

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i love you

Title : I Could Not Ask For More
 By : Edwin McCain

Lying here with you
Listening to the rain
Smiling just to see the smile upon your face
These are the moments I thank God that I’m alive
These are the moments I’ll remember all my life
I found all I’ve waited for
And I could not ask for more

Looking in your eyes
Seeing all I need
Everything you are is everything to me
These are the moments
I know heaven must exist
These are the moments I know all I need is this
I have all I’ve waited for
And I could not ask for more

Chorus
I could not ask for more than this time together
I could not ask for more than this time with you
Every prayer has been answered
Every dream I have’s come true
And right here in this moment
is right where I’m meant to be
Here with you here with me

These are the moments I thank God that I’m alive
These are the moments I’ll remember all my life
I’ve got all I’ve waited for
And I could not ask for more

Chorus

I could not ask for more than the love you give me

coz it’s all I’ve waited for
and I could not ask for more
I could not ask for more

 

Minggu Pertamaku Di Tahun 2008

Sebenarnya banyak benda yang berlaku sepanjang minggu ni..yang banyaknya perkara yang menginsafkan aku tentang betapa dunia ini dah jadi kacau bilau serta dan tak selamat untuk diduduki oleh manusia especially kanak-kanak perempuan. AKu tak tau nak cakap macam mana, bila aku bincang perkara ni dengan papa dia kata i’m too much of my feelings..dia kata biasala orang perempuan lebih-lebih lagi dah jadi mama memang perasaan selalu tak stabil..kurang tido malam katanya..but i told him..’papa i’m not making any jokes here..i’m really SERIOUS.’ dengan mata yang agak terjegil sikit supaya dia tau aku ni betul-betul serius. Ada 1 kes yang buat aku cakap mcm ni:

Kes ‘lelaki kucing’

Lelaki ni betul-betul menyemak je dalam dunia ni. Tak ada kerja lain. Isnin lalu adik Nurfatiha Zaidi, 6 tahun telah dilarikan si bangsat ni dengan alasan nak minta tolong carikan kucing dan burungnya yang hilang. Adik ni dah dijumpai (alhamdulillah). Aku tak tau apa polis punya kesimpulan mengenai kes ni, tapi my instinct kuat mengatakan lelaki ni ada kaitan dengan kes arwah Nurin Jazlin yang dibunuh dengan cara yg paling kejam. Dan baru-baru ni adik Sharlinie pulak hilang dipercayai diculik lelaki yang sama di kawasan rumahnya sendiri. Dan selain daripada nama-nama yang aku sebut tadi sebenarnya ada banyak lagi mangsa yang direkod dan tak berekod. Aku betul-betul marah dengan masyarakat hari ni..kenapa kawasan rumah dah tak selamat untuk anak-anak kita bermain? Dan aku rasa fakta kakak kepada Sharlinie bahawa yg menculik adiknya adalah wanita berambut pendek paras bahu dan berkasut tumit tinggi adalah penyamaran lelaki jahanam tu semata-mata…penah tgk Criminal Minds tak? Satu prinsip yang dipegang dalam Behavourial Analysis Unit (BAU) FBI adalah: penjenayah adalah manusia yg tak stabil emosinya. Dan aku yakin mamat ni tak berapa betul..otak mereng. DAn dia gunakan kanak-kanak sebagai mangsa utk membetulkan kemerengannya…pada pendapat dialah. Dan penjenayah ni sangat kejam..sanggup buat perkara tak logik utk stabilkan emosi..Aku yakin polis kita berpengalaman dan well versed ttg perkara analisis ni..dan semoga Sharlinie dijumpai segera tanpa diapa-apakan.

Bila aku cerita dgn papa ttg teori aku pasal analisis BAU kat atas, dia gelak je. Dia kata ‘mama ni kuat berangan la’. Tapi aku cakap kat dia nothing is impossible. Orang kalau nak buat jahat macam2 dia punya fikiran. (I think i’m born with the criminal instinct…sebab tu aku suka tv show ala-ala detective ni, termasuk Detective Conan).

Tapi, apa-apa pun aku harap sangat dunia ni dan Malaysia secara khasnya menjadi lebih selamat, engan adanya masyarakat penyayang dan saling bantu-membantu. AKu tak nampak apa cara lagi nak insafkan penjenayah yg mcm binatang tu tapi apa yg kita termampu buat adalah educate kan diri kita dan family kita supaya aware dgn perkara-perkara jenayah ni. ‘Preventive is better than cure’: adalah motto yg perlu diingati especially kanak-kanak. Dan aku masih berharap ada lagi ruang putih di hati penjenayah mendapat nur Ilahi…

ok la..nak gi miting..jap lagi sambung balik…..

Emel daripada Dato’ KSU yang amat berguna

Dear Friends,

This is good……how often do you allow garbage trucks to affect your life?  Read on……

 

Beware of Garbage Trucks

by David J. Pollay

 

How often do you let other people’s nonsense change your mood?

Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive employee ruin your day?

Unless you’re the Terminator, for an instant you’re probably set back on your heels.

However, the mark of a successful person is how quickly he/she can get back her focus on what’s important.

 

Sixteen years ago I learned this lesson. I learned it in the back of a New York City taxi cab.

Here’s what happened.

 

I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Grand Central Station.

We were driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car’s back end by just inches!

 

The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident, whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was friendly. So, I said, ‘Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!’

 

And this is when my taxi driver told me what I now call, ‘The Law of the Garbage Truck.’

 

Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it.

And if you let them, they’ll dump it on you.

When someone wants to dump on you, don’t take it personally.

 

You just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on.

You’ll be happy you did.

So this was it: The ‘Law of the Garbage Truck.’

I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over me?

And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people: at work, at home, on the streets?

It was that day I said, ‘I’m not going to do it anymore.’

I began to see garbage trucks.

I see the load they’re carrying. I see them coming to drop it off.

And like my Taxi Driver, I don’t make it a personal thing; I just smile, wave, wish them well, and I move on.

 

One of my favorite football players of all time, Walter Payton, did this every day on the football field.

He would jump up as quickly as he hit the ground after being tackled.

He never dwelled on a hit. Payton was ready to make the next play his best.

 

Good leaders know they have to be ready for their next meeting.

Good parents know that they have to welcome their children home from school with hugs and kisses.

Teachers and parents know that they have to be fully present, and at their best for the people they care about.

 

The bottom line is that successful people do not let Garbage Trucks take over their day.

What about you?

What would happen in your life, starting today, if you let more garbage trucks pass you by?

 

You’ll be happier. Here’s my bet.

 

So.. Love the people who treat you right.

Forget about the ones who don’t.

Believe that everything happens for a reason.

If you get a chance , TAKE IT!

If it changes your life , LET IT!

Nobody said it would be easy…

They just promised it would be worth it!

 

This guy says take them as Garbge Truck , I say it differently , I will take them just as another Human Being and like you and me , we sometimes misbehave emotionally but after all , I believe , everyone is trying to be good themselves. If they ever do it wrong , it is because they are not aware or did not realise it , we should help them see it. This world will be a better place to live. Just take the opponent as Transparent if we chose not to see him. It is all in us that need to change and adapt. ( this is my own version and may not necessary be right