jadual minggu ini

minggu ini memang saya sangat sibuk
satu hari sampai 3 atau 4 mesyuarat kena attend
semunya ‘penting’
tak boleh nak ‘ghaib’ begitu saja
tak mau jadi mcm kes KSU sound officer thru email, sebab officer tu tak attend one of the meeting scheduled at MITI
saya bukannya liat sangat nak ke mesyuarat
tapi bila dah pergi mesyuarat, kerja hakiki kat office sapalah yg nak tolong tengokkan..
hem..isu lepas mesyuarat tu pun satu
kena buat maklumbalas pulak tu…
pastu, badan pun lenguh2. asik duduk jer dlm bilik mesyuarat tu tanpa membuat apa2 benda yg proaktif..

yg paling penting, kalau saya pergi mesyuarat. sapa nak updatekan blog saya
entry ni pun saya buat masa anak2 dah tido…

alhamdulillah..syukur kepada Allah
insyaallah kami akan menyambut anniversary ke 4 pada 26 nov ni..iaitu sehari sebelum my birthday…
semoga Allah memberkati rumahtangga dan keluarga kami sepanjang liku kehidupan ini…

buat adikku liya haris dan rakan blogger saya puan mija yang bakal menyambut 4th anniversary jugak..sama tarikh dengan saya..saya ucapkan tahniah dan semoga berbahagia selamanya. Semoga diberkati Allah hendaknya…

saya sangat suka dgn wak indon ini..
semua lagunya best2 tau
1. sandaran hati
2. permintaan hati
3. ruang rindu
4. sebelum cahaya

dan banyak lagilah
biasanya obsesi saya dgn indon band akan faded away after a long time
tapi letto ni masih bertahan sampai sekarang..

jom layan sandaran hati..i like the most

hi all..
sekarang saya sedang berbelah bagi..sama ada nak beli ke tidak benda itu
memang menarik
dan saya memang perlukannya
apakah itu…
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A NEW MOBILE PHONE

selasa hari tu pergi bawak Damia dan Wafiy ke klinik untuk regular checkup.

damia dah 7 bulan 3 minggu…
Damia memang ada appoinment, Wafiy kena pergi jugak sebab masa dia baby dulu dia dikategorikan sebagai ‘underweight’ pulak. Jadi can’t stop from seeing the paed til 5 years old.

Updates on Nur Damia Maisara:

Weight: 7.1kg (naik 900gram gitu)
Height: 67cm (agak tinggi juga anak dara saya ni)
Skills:
1. merangkak dua tiga rangkak, membebel sebut ‘ma ma ma..ba ba ba” tak henti, kadang2 menjerit sesuka hati beliau
2. bergolek-golek sampai jatuh katil..
3. bergaduh dgn abg long beliau..

banyak lagi sebenarnya skills Damia tapi macam biasa2 jer..sama dgn baby seusianya…dan dia sangat kuat minum susu..satu hari siang malam dia minum 9 botol susu 4 oz..banyak ke normal hah?

jom layan gambar Damia yang terkini:

sebelum bergaduh dgn abg longnya

abg long tak habis2 dgn Ben10 dia jer

bunga-bunga pergaduhan dan nampak di situ..

wafiy pulak dah bertambah beratnya..16.4 kg sekarang.huh patutla sakit2 pinggang saya minggu lepas mengangkat dia di IKEA. Makan mcm biasa hanya nasi ayam, mee goreng dan sup. Air MILO dia suka sangat. Tapi susu memang dia tak boleh tinggal. Sehari 10 botol susu 10 oz..ini sangat tidak normal kata paed. Sepatutnya semakin besar, dah kurang susu, tapi say just take it as normal sebab dia memang tak makan nasi mcm budak2 sebaya dia yang lain.

Itu saja lah update anak2 saya……anak2 kawan semua mcmana???

hemm..
emo sikit pagi2 ni..dah la kat office..(harap bos tak kacau i masa ni)

pagi tadi, lepas parking, nak naik ke office dari basement tu..saya ternampak seorang ibu sedang mencium anak perempuannya sebelum masuk ke TASKA kat basement office saya…
i’m touched and automatically the mothers’ inner thought hit me..yes..i miss my lil daughter and my son…even i’ve just arrived at my office..

untuk anak2 mama:

bukan sengaja mama tinggalkan kamu berdua kat rumah tanpa mama..
mama bekerja…untuk kepentingan negara juga
mama bukan suka2 nak tunjuk kat orang yg mama ni bekerjaya, sampai sanggup tinggalkan anak2…
entah..susah nak jelaskan…
tapi, mama janji…
there’s something rewarding for u all later okay…

Muhammad Amirul Wafiy, and
Nur Damia Maisara…

sebenarnya dah lama saya menyimpan rasa sakit hati saya ni
since last sunday, iaitu selepas bershopping di IKEA tu..
sakit hati sebab kami dah keluar rumah awal, intentionally b’coz byk barang nak dibeli (ye lah..tengok je lebih), tapi end up JAMMED giler kat depan junction nak masuk ke IKEA tu..
saya tak tahu samada keadaan ni mmg standard kat sana, maksudnya mmg selalu jammed mcm tu ke apa.
tapi memang GERAM la sangat..
dah la byk traffic light satu hal, pastu kereta menyelit2 tak hengat pulak.hei nak je aku jerit..tolong jgn memotong barisan boleh tak….
yg paling sakit hati tu..bila tau sebab jalan jam tu..disebabkan manusia ‘mangkuk ayun’ seperti berikut (sori ayat kasar sikit but i can’t stand those ppl yg langgar peraturan ok):

hem..geram..
kawan2 semua tak mcm tu kan..
dah ada roundabout, guna je la
jgn membahayakan nyawa diri sendiri dan pengguna yg lain….

ni ada gambar selingan buat meredakan sakit hati hahaha

muka mia dah mcm apa tah...boring giler

just got this thru email..from a good friend of mine and i would like to share with my mum friends out there…it’s good to practice u see..

It goes without saying that mothers have an important role to play in their children’s lives. Here are a few tips on how you can be a better parent to your child:

Respect and value your child:

Always respect your children — respect and listen to their views and values, their opinions. Give them your complete attention when they want to talk to you. Put whatever activity you are engaged in on hold, and if that’s not possible, set a time for when you can chat, and make sure to stick to it.

Encourage your children every opportunity you get. Make them feel special and express your love for them often. Hug them, kiss them and say ‘I love you’ everyday, not just when they are young but also as they grow older. Let them feel your love and affection as often as you can.

Talk to your kids:

Conversing with children is the best way to influence their ability and love for learning. Children who are spoken to often as infants will understand more words when they are toddlers and pre-schoolers than others. Communication also strengthens the mother-child bond and eases out the communication barriers, even as kids grow older.

Have fun with them:

Mothers are so busy with their day-to-day routines that they forget to have fun with their children. Take out one-on-one time to enjoy with your child. Do something that both of you like — indulge in outdoor games, art and craft, board games, go for a walk, chat, cook — do anything at all that makes you feel good. Laugh together, tickle each other, dance, sing songs, just have FUN!

Read to your little ones:

Reading to your children is the best way to inculcate a reading habit in them, which leads to a love of learning as they grow older. Reading also creates an emotional bond between parent and the child, whether it’s lap-time reading, bedtime reading or any other way of doing it that you both enjoy. Moreover, it develops their imagination, creativity, vocabulary and communication skills.

Keep your children safe:

All parents want to keep their kids safe. Remember to take the necessary precautions, whether it is making them sit in the backseat of the car while driving, or making sure that there is someone responsible with them at all times. Make sure your home is childproof, with electrical outlets out of reach, furniture edges rounded off, glass items out of the way etc.

Teach your children values:

Make sure to impart good values to your kids — it’s the best gift you’ll ever give them. Values are the foundation of a child’s character. Teach your children values through everyday interactions, stories and by the way you conduct yourself. While story-telling, however, make sure you don’t connect the story to the child. If, for example, you want to teach your little one about honesty, tell him/ her interesting stories related to it. Do not say, “You should behave in the same manner as so-and-so did and always tell the truth” — the message will not sink in. To a youngster, this feels like nagging and moralizing, which will go in one ear and out the other.

Be a good role model:

Remember that your kids are watching you all the time and want to ape you in every possible way. Even very young children take in and listen to everything their parents say and do, so remain aware of your actions and behavior around them. For example, if you talk rudely to the domestic help, you will not be very successful in teaching your children the value of politeness. Model the behavior that you want them to develop.

Keep your kids healthy, but allow them their personal likes and dislikes when it comes to food:

Provide nutritious meals for your children, but allow them to make their own choices about what they like or don’t like. As long as you are providing them with nutritious options and not junk food, they will almost always make the right choices. With young children, try and be creative with their meals, so that it’s fun for them. If, for instance, there is cooked vegetable and chapattis for dinner, fold some cooked veggies into each chapatti so that the kids can enjoy it as a roll.

Set rules and limits:

A good mother is firm and flexible. Don’t leave discipline only to a child’s father. Set reasonable rules and limits and discuss them with your kids beforehand. Follow through with the consequences whenever applicable. However, there are times when you have to be flexible and ease the rules; times when youngsters are tired, sleepy, hungry or not well.

Be just and fair:

Treat all your children in the same manner. However, don’t try to be overly fair, as it will get in the way — for example, if you are out shopping and spot a book that one of your kids needs for a reference project, you do not necessarily have to buy something for the other child. Similarly, bring the other child what he/ she requires when it’s needed. As long as you are providing for both of them equally, they will understand and not make an issue. When you try to be overly fair, children tend to find faults with every little thing you do.

Don’t interfere in your children’s fights unless it’s necessary:

Allow your kids to settle issues on their own. As long as there is no bullying or physical violence, do not get involved in their fights. When you try to resolve their disputes, you will be required to take sides and this will not go down well with one of them. It is better to allow children to handle their own problems as far as possible. If they are not able to do it, or you feel like the situation is getting to you, ask them to play separately till they are able to be civil to each other and find a solution. You will be doing them a favor by teaching them the values of co-operation, problem-solving and compromise in the process.

Honor their father:

One of the best things a mother can do is Honor her children’s father in front of them. Even if you are separated or divorced, never speak ill about your spouse in front of your children. Talk about him with respect and teach your children to respect him too.

Get the kids to interact with extended family:

Get your children to bond with extended family — uncles, aunts, cousins. Make an effort so that they interact with both the maternal and paternal sides. Even if you don’t get along with your in-laws, teach your children to respect their grandparents. They will hold you in higher esteem for doing that.

Keep your self-respect intact:

Always expect to be treated with respect by others in the presence of your kids and by your kids themselves. Do not allow anyone to cross a line. Maintain your dignity under all circumstances; be honest and keep your integrity intact always.

Take care of yourself:

Sleep well and take out time for yourself. Keep yourself in good health. Remember, a happy, relaxed mother can give more of herself to her children and family than an overworked, tense parent.

p/s: am hoping to practice all these tips…

pagi ni saya baca suratkhabar..
ada filem baru
filem romantik..
the time traveller’s wife rasanya kalau tak silap
pelakon-Eric Bana and Rachel Mc adams
tgk gmbr mcm bes jer filem ni
hahah..berangan jer la
bila lah dpt menonton filem kat pawagam nih
beli DVD je la nmpknya…

i have no idea..
why arr..nowadays, new officers are so ‘kerek’ one lah
they don’t respect ‘orang tua’ like me lah
…..???????????

gambar hanyalah sekadar hiasan sahaja..tiada kena mengena ok